A few days ago, I asked my Instagram friends for the best and the worst parts of quarantine life. I decided to spend a somewhat crazy amount of time typing up some of your answers here for a couple reasons… first, they’re awesome. They’re real and they’re heartfelt and they’re funny and they’re sad, but they’re REAL, and we don’t get that enough from social. Second, to let you know YOU’RE NOT ALONE. No matter what you’re feeling or doing or not doing, many other people are feeling and doing and not doing the exact same thing. Be proud of what you can accomplish now, even if that is managing to brush your teeth twice a day, and do not beat yourself up over one single thing you aren’t accomplishing.
Can you guess what people miss most right now? HUGS! It’s surprising, but also not surprising. Perhaps one of those things I take for granted. The physical connection and feeling that you get from it that you don’t even realize the importance of in day to day life.
You know what else was common across the board – EVERYONE is tired of cooking and also confused on how there can possibly be SO. MANY. DISHES. ALL. DAY. LONG. Where are they coming from? And how does cooking one more full meal per day (lunch) create SO much more work?
Many people are feeling alone while many people are missing their usual alone time. Some people have more freedom to do things they love and some people have less. Some people HAVE to work and wish they didn’t while others can’t work and wish they could. Most people are one loud breath away from strangling their significant other or putting their children up for adoption while others are so thankful to have all their kids back home. Many people are thrilled to go braless and without makeup for the longest stretch ever and some people miss the routine of getting clean and dressed everyday.
Something else I found interesting was how many people are feeling an insanely relieving lack of pressure – not having to attend social engagements, not having to feel like you must go out to have fun, not having to feel guilty staying home and sewing. Many are also enjoying the slower pace. I truly hope that we remember all the “lessons” that are coming out of this and perhaps change our perspective on how we live and spend our time, but that’s a post for another day 🙂
Now I’m going to share some of your specific answers, starting with the worst parts and ending on a high note with the best. There were a lot of the same answers like the things mentioned above, so this isn’t all, but a handful! I hope you enjoy, and feel less alone.
The Worst parts of Quarantine Life
No money coming in
I miss restaurants and date night
Anxiety over it all
Staying home with my kid all day
Can’t find toilet paper!
My son not being able to see his friends
It feels unsafe, I take boiling showers and I don’t feel clean enough
I’m not quarantined, I still have to work. I want to say home and SEW
What to eat?!
Having to really stop and think before I walk out the door to run to the grocery store
Trying not to strangle my husband
Being scared to go to the store and having to wash everything
I can’t stop eating
Being in a different state than my 20 year old kids
Virtual hugs. They suck. I miss real ones.
A lot less alone time.
Knowing that everything is closed. Kind of a national mood of fear and sadness
Trying to get groceries safely
Too many people in my house
Homeschooling (insert crazy face emoji)
Cant hug my friends
Having all my kids home, including college aged
Being scared for my Dad
Cant see and hug my grandkids
The uncertainty
I miss my nieces and nephews!
Not being able to spend time with friends.
Not getting to hug my mom.
Im busier than ever
Being stuck at home with the kiddos 24/7
Nowhere to cry alone
Being alone
Not getting to eat out, missing local restaurants
Being an essential worker and not getting time to sew like my friends
Being alone 24/7
Not being able to hug family and friends
Fear of how the virus will affect us all
Not being able to buy the sh*t I want, like toilet paper
Impending dread of we are so not at the worst of this
extra dishes to wash
Not seeing family and friends
Grocery shopping
Unable to visit family
cant shop for fabric in persdon
My husband still has to go to work
Not hugging my adult children
Having to cook every night
ALL THE DISHES
Having to feed everyone three meals a day. EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
No hugs from friends
Being afraid to go anywhere
everything!
I wish my kids would be quiet and entertain themselves
Not going to the gym
too much husband
hmm, depends on the day
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THE BEST PARTS OF QUARANTINE LIFE
Lots of sewing time!
Staying home with my kid all day
Zero pressure to attend social engagements
Spending everyday in the garden
Not feeling guilty for staying home and sewing
Seeing people come together
No appointments to drive to
Family is together and healthy
Being with my family
Relaxing. doing art, sleeping enough. Never thought I’d ever have a “break” again
My husband did walk with my yesterday!
Getting to spend family time at home without the pressure of feeling you should go out
Sewing, sewing, and more sewing!
Getting things done that I’ve put off for too long
Actually not strangling my husband!
Doing whatever I want
The kids and husband are home to help me garden
The slow pace of the day
More quilting time
All the awesome things people are doing online to entertain us
Sleeping in
Having someone to binge watch late night Netflix with when I can sleep since hours are flexible
Doing quiet things just for fun: family time, embroidery, reading, baking
I can go for says without washing my hair!
Nesting, cooking, sewing, painting!
no commute!
cooking more and enjoying it
Having all my kids home
Connecting to family
My house is SO CLEAN!
Getting stuff done
Being stuck at home with the kids
Working from home and spending all day with my dog
More sewing time!
No traffic
That I have enough and am OK and my friends and family are too
No need to make excuses for being reclusive
Already getting a tan
Still working
No bra for weeks on end!
Making the most of my time off work with my children
Sitting on the deck for hours
Chillin at the lake every weekend with my kids
Having my traveling husband home
no makeup!
More crafting time
Realizing how very insane my 4 kids are and seeing how very much they love each other
Having almost everything I need to stay put
Getting all the things done
I have an excuse to get groceries WITHOUT three kids!
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Stay safe and healthy, don’t forget to brush your teeth and change your clothes … occasionally!